
The Unfiltered Spot
Uncensored conversations about love, life, family and everything in between.
Episodes
71 episodes
Episode 71: Married Men Need Gas
Welcome back to another episode of The Unfiltered Spot! This week, Dray and Jack are holding it down with a lively conversation you won’t want to miss. They dive into the story behind ‘Club Sha Sha’ and tackle some late-night dilemmas ...
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Season 8
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Episode 71
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36:54

Episode 70: Queso Silliness
Jack sits with a sick Dray this week to discuss queso at the swinger party and pastors who say anything on the mic.
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Season 7
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Episode 70
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38:50

Episode 69: Intimacy Without Sex
Dray & Jack dive deep into the concept of intimacy beyond the physical. With candid conversation and real-life perspectives, they explore how emotional connection, vulnerability, and meaningful communication can create powerful bonds.
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Season 7
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Episode 69
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32:36

Episode 68: Choices
This week Dray & Jack sit to discuss choices, whether it be to sit through TSA when you have Precheck or to keep the tough guy mentality even when it’s not in your best interest.
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Season 7
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Episode 68
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24:06

Episode 67: We’re Live Now
Dray and Jack sit down this week to discuss our rude neighbors, birth control, and zodiac compatibility.We also did a BIG thing….we’re live on YouTube!!! So now you have the opportunity to see us in person.
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Season 7
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Episode 67
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39:12

Episode 66: Just Checking In
This week Dray & Jack discuss hazing in organizations and the concept of Black people themselves can be racist.
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Season 7
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Episode 66
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40:50

Episode 65: He Calls Me Baby
Dray and Jack catch up this week and discuss love names, more 2025 dating woes, and their thoughts of living at home as an adult.
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Season 7
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Episode 65
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1:02:57

Episode 64: 2025 Freak Fest
Dray and Jack explore the “freak party fantasy” and predict how each other would react. In addition they discuss two relationship issues and how they would tackle them.
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Season 7
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Episode 64
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1:05:34

Episode 63: Black History
Happy Black History Month ❤️💚🖤💛 Dray and Jack sit to share some Black History stories that have been passed down and how the concept of “instant gratification” is running wild.
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Season 7
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Episode 63
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50:26

Episode 62: All About Love
For Dray and Jack it’s all about love. On this episode we define love and lay out some characteristics of love. ❤️ We also discuss Kendrick Lamar’s Super Bowl performance.
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Season 7
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Episode 62
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53:38

Episode 61: Tears & Fears
Approaching their 40s Jack and Dray discuss some weird symptoms and how they’re adjusting. They also discuss how false tears and fears can be dangerous for the Black community.
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Season 7
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Episode 61
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54:35

Episode 59: Earth is a crazy place
This week Dray and Jack discuss why our kids won’t be sleeping over at their friends house and teen pregnancy.
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Season 6
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Episode 59
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47:41

Episode 58: 2024 We’re Out
Happy New Year from Dray and Jack. This week we recap 2024, discuss 2025 resolutions and challenge all parents to find a alternative way for disciplining their children.
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Season 6
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Episode 58
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49:20

Episode 57: The State of Marriage
Happy Holidays from Dray & Jack!!! This week they sit to discuss the state of marriage because it appears that we’re down real bad.
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Season 6
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Episode 57
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43:07

Episode 56: We Listen & Judge
This week Dray and Jack weigh in on the “Listen and Judge” trend. - TikTok birthday hotel decorations- Women using Men for financial gain- Baby shower and mall proposals
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Season 6
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Episode 56
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31:42

Episode 55: Holiday Season
This week Dray & Jack recap the holiday season, how it feels to be married and media madness.
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Season 6
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Episode 55
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53:51

Episode 54: Standards & Secrets
This week Dray and Jack discuss the different standards of raising the next generation and the secret that some women are carrying.
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Season 6
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Episode 54
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44:33

Episode 53: Heritage
Jack is back from vacation and ready to discuss all things family lineage. This week Jack and Dray discuss travel etiquette, missing flights and blue bracelets.
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Season 6
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Episode 53
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59:55

Episode 52: Defending Our Legacy
This week, Jack and Dray discuss the recent events happening on various HBCU campuses. It seems like we’re losing pieces of our culture and the art of having a good time all at the same time.
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Season 6
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Episode 52
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37:06

Episode 51: Life Transitions
This week, Dray and Jack explore navigating major life changes such as career shifts, health challenges, or significant losses during the holiday season.
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Season 6
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Episode 51
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45:11

Episode 50: Back in the Day
This week Dray and Jack discuss:NC State fairTHS 20th reunion NCCU homecoming Growing up in the 90’s
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Season 5
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Episode 50
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46:38

Episode 49: MidWeek Review
Dray and Jack are back after a short hiatus with a midweek catch up.
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Season 5
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Episode 49
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59:07

Episode 48: Brain Storm - My Tumor Journey
This week Dray discusses the journey of his brain tumor. From diagnosis, to treatments, and life after remission.Interested in purchasing Dray’s book “Troubling Waters” by Hiram Dancy Jr? It can be found on Amazon or by clicking the fol...
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Season 5
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Episode 48
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52:05

Episode 47: Hurricane Season
After Hurricane Helene has affected much of western North Carolina, Dray reflects on 1999 Hurricane Floyd’s devastation to eastern North Carolina. As mentioned during this podcast Dray’s book “Troubling Waters” by Hiram Dancy Jr can be ...
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Season 5
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Episode 47
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50:47
